Dear Max: Is Great Sex Good Enough?

Master Psychic Maxwell B Rossada answers your questions about Love & Relationships. If you have a question, you can Ask Max and you might find your answers in an upcoming post!

Is Great Sex enough to keep a relationship going?

Dear Max: “My boyfriend and I have amazing, earth-shattering sex. But I don’t know if that’s enough anymore… will he ever ask me to get married?”

Signed: Jessica N.  “Just Having Fun” in Miami, FL

Dear Jessica: I had a wonderful time with your reading. Right away I picked up on your playful energy! You are the type of person who can have a good time doing just about anything, just about anywhere. You get along with everyone, and when people are with you, they feel better about themselves, as if they too can do anything.

This is an amazing ability you have, to be able to bring out the positive energy in others. However, when it comes to relationships, your energy can burn a little too hot! With so much focus on physical fun, your partners tend to have little left for anything else! Eventually, you get bored or they get worn-out, and things just fall apart.

Your current relationship with your boyfriend is heading in the same direction. You provided me with his birthdate and other details when you submitted your question, which really helped me tune into his energy as well. I pulled a few cards to do a relationship spread, and it shows that you are about to come to a critical junction in the relationship. Here are the primary points to your relationship reading:

1. The two of you were drawn together first through a strong physical attraction. Things moved faster than he was used to, but over time the two of you have grown even closer.
2. Yes, there is great potential for this relationship to be a success. In fact, if you work at it, this relationship can be EPIC!
3. You are entering a crucial period for this relationship. You’re going to be making a decision soon, probably in the next 1-2 months. This decision will determine if the flame keeps burning!

My Advice: So, what’s the decision you need to make? It’s really pretty simple. In fact, I’d say its the hardest simple decision you’ve ever made… Do you want him? And if your answer is ‘yes,’ you need to decide if you’re willing to make it work? You see, he is unlikely to be the instigator in the relationship… he drags his feet, even when its something he wants. So if you want it, if you want marriage… you need to tell him that he needs to ask you!

After that, I can see great things happening. I see that this relationship has great potential to be long-lasting, with lots of joy, adventure and surprises!

But Jessica… you need to take time to yourself to really think about it. Is he the one you want to be with? Because he’s not the only option for you. You’ve passed on other potential mates who may have been just as good (or better) because you felt like you were looking for something else. What I’m saying here, is you have a lot of opportunities, and if this isn’t the one that you feel sure about, you should listen to yourself and move on. Keep searching… and have fun while you are!