Dear Max: Am I Hopeless in Love?

Each week Master Psychic Maxwell B Rossada answers your questions about Love & Relationships. If you have a question, you can Ask Max and you might find your answers in an upcoming post!

Will I ever find love, or am I hopeless?

Dear Max: “I seem to move from one bad relationship to another. My fiance just broke things off because he said he’s in love with another woman. I’m ready to give up on ever finding someone who will love me. Is there any hope?”

Signed,
Giving Up On Love in Tuscon, AZ

Dear “Giving Up On Love”: I immediately felt your pain and suffering. You are a trusting person who sees the best in everyone. You see past the flaws and focus on the positive traits. This is what makes you special, it’s who you are. If you step back for a moment and really look at your life, you’ll see that your way of looking at the world has actually served you well in all areas — except for love.

Focusing on the positive has worked great in your career… I can see that you have been successful because you make allies. It has served you well when it comes to friends… you have a lot of people who count on you, but you’re also able to count on them when you need some help. You have formed amazing friendships that will last your lifetime.

Unfortunately, I’m afraid when it comes to matters of the heart, you become all but blind to anything your partner does, making it hard to see the truth. Your unwillingness to look at the whole person, blemishes and all, causes you to put whoever you’re in a relationship with on a pedestal. The problem is, nobody can stand on a pedestal forever, eventually we all fall.

My Advice: Whatever you do, don’t change how you view the world. Kind souls like yourself are rare these days, and we need you spreading your positive energy… its contagious! However, you need to try to make better decisions about who you enter into a relationship with. Make sure to open your eyes to their less than desirable traits. It doesn’t mean they are going to be the wrong person for you, we all have faults. But you need to enter a relationship with the whole person, not just their good side.

I have some good news for you too… I can see you finding true love, he’s out there. You haven’t met him, yet, but he’s going to be entering your life this spring. You won’t know he’s interested in you at first because he’s going to play it cool… too cool. The truth is, he’s going to experience “love at first sight” with you… only he’ll be uncertain how to proceed. I see him as being in a profession he went to school for, and he drives a green vehicle. He has dark hair, muscular build, shorter than you normally go for. One other thing… he has a tattoo, but you won’t be able to see that until things get a lot more serious!

And this is just one possible path. There are others too, and if you keep searching with an open heart and a focused lens, there is still a lot of hope for you in love!